I have the privilege of using a beautiful, spacious, discreet dungeon in the East Bay. It is extremely well-equipped and has a variety of rooms. Outcall is available to SF, North Bay, and South Bay. 



I have a regular tour circuit, which involves: LA, Chicago, Cleveland, New York City,  Charlotte, Charleston, Asheville, Nashville, and New Orleans. I am also available to fly to you. See my travel dates below. 


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  • Scroll to the contact form below; follow instructions and approach me respectfully.

  • Be prepared for a brief screening and to send a deposit online.


I'm tall (6'1 before heels), I'm gorgeous, I'm experienced, and I understand BDSM. To me, the experience is mental as well as physical. I understand your need for strict discipline and guidance, as well as your craving for empathetic connection. I know that BDSM is a pathway to relaxation, healing, and emotional release. My strength, power, and intuitive nature will help you engage your submissive side like never before.

I have been enjoying life as a dominant woman for many years now, and have been on the Bay Area scene since 2014. I also travel all over the country--see my dates below. 

MY TOP SCENES / activities (as of June 2019): 

  • Sissification / lesbianic lingerie play - I feel sexy in lingerie, and I want to connect over all things feminine.

  • Therapeutic Kink and Reiki - I have Reiki level 2. Ask me about energy work! 

  • Verbal Humiliation - I love to get creative, especially with SPH. I get high on the improvisational sexual theater aspects of BDSM. 

  • Sounding - I have several sounding kits, and I find it to be a very zen activity. I even wrote a poem about it! 

  • Foot Worship - I find this activity to be so erotic.

  • Golden Showers - I love golden showers. Such an erotic, intimate, sacred act. 

PACKAGE DATES (ask for more info!): 

  • A Sissy in San Francisco... 

  • Dinner with a side of Humiliation...

  • Forced Intox in the Castro...

  • A Visit to the Lingerie Department...

  • Fun with Food Play...


  • CBT - this gets me so high! 

  • Piercing 

  • Medical Play - ask me about the intensive I took.  

  • Strap-on 

  • Impact Play - are you able to be marked? Come to me.

  • Roleplay - let's get creative! 

  • Therapeutic kink/tantra - ask me if interested.

  • Forced Intox

  • Financial domination

  • PHONE and SKYPE. Email me for more information. 

  • Doubles with other mistresses!!  

I do not offer sex in any form. Please don't ask for sexual or illegal services. 



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Fill out this form in its entirety; please be direct, thoughtful, and respectful. Write about your previous experiences, and if you have references, list their names and email addresses. 


Keep in mind that I require at least 48 hours advance notice. I also travel, so keep an eye on my travel dates (below), and be sure to contact me in advance. 


Feel free to use this form to schedule a Skype session with me (if this is the case, put n/a in the "references" field.


If you are looking for extended phone chat, I invite you to call me on Niteflirt. 



--Fill out the booking form above, which asks for a reference, as well as other specifics. I do not answer vague or incomplete emails.
--Please be discreet over email.
--I have a 90 minute minimum - an hour is so rushed, and doesn't allow time for negotiation and aftercare. 
--I accept deposits after a meeting time has been agreed upon. Generally this is within six emails. 
--I take my deposits via Giftrocket.com or Cash App. Cash App handle is $MistressCamilla. 
--I do not answer DM's on Twitter, Instagram, or Fetlife. 
--I require 48 hours notice, a reference or employment verification info, and a deposit in order to book with me.
--I am understanding and open to newbies, but I screen newbies with employment info.
--Deposits are non-refundable, unless I cancel a session. I have done this one time in five years - I take pride on not being a flake. 
--I require a confirmation by phone 48 hours before our scheduled meeting, unless otherwise discussed.
--I will accommodate rescheduling needs if I am made aware 48+ hours before the scheduled meeting.
--Address me as Mistress
--Please do not argue with me about my tribute. This only ensures that I will not see you. 
--Deposits are not optional. I know some clients have been "burned" on deposits before, but I have spent five years establishing myself as an upscale and ethical provider. There is proof all over the internet, so do your homework and understand that a deposit is the only way to show me that you are serious about showing up. 
--I do not appreciate being advised (or questioned) on my life, my choices, my work, etc. If I want your opinion, know that I will ask for it.
--Understand that I love what I do, yet I also take it very seriously.
--If you are not quite ready to meet in person, know that Niteflirt is a great option for you.
--I love being showered with gifts, such as tasteful red wine, gift certificates (Agent Provacateur, Lush, Victoria’s Secret), or items from my Amazon wish list: http://amzn.com/w/2ZDSHAVVB2TWM
  • Oakland, CA: August and September 
  • Charleston, SC: Sept 26 - 28 
  • Charlotte, NC: Sept 28 - Oct 1
  • New York City: Oct 2 - 6
  • Chicago: Oct 18 - 20 
  • Cleveland, OH: Oct 20 - 22 
FLY ME TO YOU! I can travel to LA, Las Vegas, Phoenix, Denver, Salt Lake City, Boise, Portland, and Seattle for a day trip or overnight playdate. Fill out the contact form above to inquire. 
No sex or sexual services are offered or implied. Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.